Archive for September, 2008

Sep 30 2008

Why Don’t We Use What We Already Know?

Published by Tom Volkar under Blogging | Email This Post Email This Post | 2,214 views

One of the most frequent comments I see on self-development blogs is, “thanks for reminding me.” Often this is followed by the exasperating question, “I know this stuff; why do I forget to use it?”

Why do we forget to use what we already know to be useful for us?

When this occurs, have we really learned it well in the first place?

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36 responses so far

Sep 24 2008

How to Beat the Work Life Blues

Published by Tom Volkar under Life Coaching | Email This Post Email This Post | 1,935 views

Working in a job you hate kills your spirit and drains your energy. But you’ll never escape the hell you’re in by bitching and moaning about it.

What we focus on, expands. What we give our attention to; we get more of. What we look at, whether it is pleasing or upsetting, becomes our focus point of expansion. When considering a career transition, everything we resist persists – because we are giving it our attention. It doesn’t matter if your boss is stealing all your good ideas; by complaining about it, you are keeping yourself locked in the same prison.

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Sep 22 2008

Authentic Business Discovery

Published by Tom Volkar under Business Startup | Email This Post Email This Post | 1,389 views

The absolute sweet spot of your business is that place where your deep gladness meets the world’s deep need. But how do we find a need so deep that fulfilling it would also make us feel so good?

There are two distinct schools of thought when it comes to discovering the right business to launch. One school seems to be more spiritually based because they talk about finding work that you love, following your passion and living a purposeful life.

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Sep 18 2008

Spirit and Business

Published by Tom Volkar under Business Startup | Email This Post Email This Post | 937 views

Yesterday I was leading a coaching group, via phone, on developing the confidence to be your own boss. During class we discussed the concept of burning desire and its origination from Spirit or God. Have you ever considered where your new business ideas come from?

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Sep 14 2008

Finding Your Business Sweet Spot

Published by Tom Volkar under Career Coaching | Email This Post Email This Post | 1,172 views

Vocation is where your deep gladness meets the world’s deep need. Frederich BuechnerSince each of us has unique desires, values and strengths it follows that each of us also has a unique business in us that we could build better than anyone else. Discovering that business and then developing the confidence to launch it, is what stops most folks from enjoying the fulfillment, freedom and prosperity that was meant to be theirs. The absolute sweet spot of your business is where your deep gladness meets the world’s deep need.

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18 responses so far

Sep 09 2008

Believe It Or Not

Published by Tom Volkar under Life Coaching | Email This Post Email This Post | 833 views

I’ve found delightful work to be an illusive experience for many folks. Often it’s more effective to approach the discovery of delightful work in multiple and varied ways. Sometimes we need to sneak up on our own minds to extract the wisdom within. Other times we can set an intention and go for a full frontal exploration. And sometimes it works well to release long-held beliefs in order to consider what might reveal itself.

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33 responses so far

Sep 03 2008

I’m Not Ready Yet

Published by Tom Volkar under Freedom of Self-Employment | Email This Post Email This Post | 1,273 views

Often an employee who wants the freedom of being her own boss will make a statement about her lack of readiness. Have you considered what makes us ready or not? Readiness is a self-described, subjective state of being that is not usually given the consideration it deserves.

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