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		<title>By: Tom Volkar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 20:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Patricia - Thanks for the thorough comment.  Here&#039;s my take on an opening you may not have considered.  If they started licensing coaches, I would simply call myself something else.  I refuse to jump through licensing and or credentialing hoops set up by others simply because they are usually bureaucracies where those who are already in make it increasing difficult to be licensed or credentialed. Just like I am my own economy. I am also my own authority. Meaning I author my own life.  

If I were you I&#039;d look at the kind of counseling that you want to do and call it something that does not require the blessing of an outside authority. Decide what that value is and charge dearly for it. Those who really want will pay your fee. The world needs your unique expression in order to be whole.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patricia &#8211; Thanks for the thorough comment.  Here&#8217;s my take on an opening you may not have considered.  If they started licensing coaches, I would simply call myself something else.  I refuse to jump through licensing and or credentialing hoops set up by others simply because they are usually bureaucracies where those who are already in make it increasing difficult to be licensed or credentialed. Just like I am my own economy. I am also my own authority. Meaning I author my own life.  </p>
<p>If I were you I&#8217;d look at the kind of counseling that you want to do and call it something that does not require the blessing of an outside authority. Decide what that value is and charge dearly for it. Those who really want will pay your fee. The world needs your unique expression in order to be whole.</p>
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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 20:13:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tom,
Very good writing and dynamic post.  I read your posts often but do not comment, but in my course work I am doing right now about money, this post makes me want to say something.

I always give my A self to my work, to my family, to myself and my daily living....My intuition is in my face 24/7 and I am a big risk taker. I have made a difference with my work efforts and how I live my life...

but I don&#039;t seem to be able to ever get paid for my efforts...several years ago I stopped doing itinerant counseling because I could not stand to see any more drug addicted newborns, children beaten nearly to death, or one more teenager out of control and doing harm - so I left the work.  I could only do this kind of counseling because of my license - now they are redefining licensing requirements and I once again can not pass the math requirements and I am just tired of going to school.

I wanted to be an Ethics Professor...I could not do the math...so got into seminary, but now can not get a doctorate this route because I am unable to do the math/ or speak and write the language requirements. 

I could not even take care of my dying mother anymore without completing a care giving licensing course which requires lots of memorization and math skills I do not have...

I am not a licensed Pastoral Counselor  or a Marriage and Family Counselor so I can no longer be a Campus Minister or do pre-marriage or post marriage counseling...

Usually I look at these road blocks as just a detour in my path...and go around them...

I would like to make enough money to  pay my medical bills and not always be dependent on my family.... because even though you are great at the job without the licensing credentials you get paid minimum wage....and you pay your own insurance and benefits...or you just volunteer...

So I am reading all sorts of things about making money and attempting to listen to my inner wisdom....which is loudly shouting in my ear  &quot; You are not supposed to make money.&quot;  

I will see how this turns out!   I&#039;ll probably write a few posts about it.   It took me 30 years to get enough funds to go to Scotland this summer for my 60th birthday and see my Father&#039;s homeland....(no I am not going to pay for my medical bills right now)  and I truly believe that it will all work out for the best...

I get angry at the powers that be - now and again, mostly to let off steam....and I just wanted to say, that there are folks out in this land who are contended to be giving their A work all the time  and feel grateful to be alive and up and running!

Thank you for a great post

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Patricias last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://patriciaswisdom.com/2009/03/what%E2%80%99s-for-dinner/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What’s for dinner?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom,<br />
Very good writing and dynamic post.  I read your posts often but do not comment, but in my course work I am doing right now about money, this post makes me want to say something.</p>
<p>I always give my A self to my work, to my family, to myself and my daily living&#8230;.My intuition is in my face 24/7 and I am a big risk taker. I have made a difference with my work efforts and how I live my life&#8230;</p>
<p>but I don&#8217;t seem to be able to ever get paid for my efforts&#8230;several years ago I stopped doing itinerant counseling because I could not stand to see any more drug addicted newborns, children beaten nearly to death, or one more teenager out of control and doing harm &#8211; so I left the work.  I could only do this kind of counseling because of my license &#8211; now they are redefining licensing requirements and I once again can not pass the math requirements and I am just tired of going to school.</p>
<p>I wanted to be an Ethics Professor&#8230;I could not do the math&#8230;so got into seminary, but now can not get a doctorate this route because I am unable to do the math/ or speak and write the language requirements. </p>
<p>I could not even take care of my dying mother anymore without completing a care giving licensing course which requires lots of memorization and math skills I do not have&#8230;</p>
<p>I am not a licensed Pastoral Counselor  or a Marriage and Family Counselor so I can no longer be a Campus Minister or do pre-marriage or post marriage counseling&#8230;</p>
<p>Usually I look at these road blocks as just a detour in my path&#8230;and go around them&#8230;</p>
<p>I would like to make enough money to  pay my medical bills and not always be dependent on my family&#8230;. because even though you are great at the job without the licensing credentials you get paid minimum wage&#8230;.and you pay your own insurance and benefits&#8230;or you just volunteer&#8230;</p>
<p>So I am reading all sorts of things about making money and attempting to listen to my inner wisdom&#8230;.which is loudly shouting in my ear  &#8221; You are not supposed to make money.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I will see how this turns out!   I&#8217;ll probably write a few posts about it.   It took me 30 years to get enough funds to go to Scotland this summer for my 60th birthday and see my Father&#8217;s homeland&#8230;.(no I am not going to pay for my medical bills right now)  and I truly believe that it will all work out for the best&#8230;</p>
<p>I get angry at the powers that be &#8211; now and again, mostly to let off steam&#8230;.and I just wanted to say, that there are folks out in this land who are contended to be giving their A work all the time  and feel grateful to be alive and up and running!</p>
<p>Thank you for a great post</p>
<p><abbr><em>Patricias last blog post..<a href="http://patriciaswisdom.com/2009/03/what%E2%80%99s-for-dinner/" rel="nofollow">What’s for dinner?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 18:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sara - That&#039;s wonderful, when we truly ask and then trust ourselves all kinds of good stuff begins occurring. Feeling free is just the beginning. What you are now free to create is the gift that will keep on giving. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sara &#8211; That&#8217;s wonderful, when we truly ask and then trust ourselves all kinds of good stuff begins occurring. Feeling free is just the beginning. What you are now free to create is the gift that will keep on giving. <img src='http://www.delightfulwork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 16:40:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tom -- I love this line, &quot;You can’t choose the wrong advice, if you’ve gone to your own well.&quot;  It deserves to be on my sticky note list...the notes I put up near my computer so they constantly remind me to read them and take in what they say.

I recently made sort of a career change and it&#039;s made all the difference for me.  To do this, I really had to trust my intuition because this change scared me, but I did it and I don&#039;t regret it. I feel so much freer and happier than I was before.

Thanks for a great post :~)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Saras last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/sarahealy/soulconnections/~3/Jh3yo6DG4N4/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;More than just 5 words in a journal&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom &#8212; I love this line, &#8220;You can’t choose the wrong advice, if you’ve gone to your own well.&#8221;  It deserves to be on my sticky note list&#8230;the notes I put up near my computer so they constantly remind me to read them and take in what they say.</p>
<p>I recently made sort of a career change and it&#8217;s made all the difference for me.  To do this, I really had to trust my intuition because this change scared me, but I did it and I don&#8217;t regret it. I feel so much freer and happier than I was before.</p>
<p>Thanks for a great post :~)</p>
<p><abbr><em>Saras last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/sarahealy/soulconnections/~3/Jh3yo6DG4N4/" rel="nofollow">More than just 5 words in a journal</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 11:40:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All - A reader asked how exactly do we tap this inner wisdom.  You don&#039;t have to do anything special other than open the lines of communication through invitation. You&#039;re already frequently in communication with your little self. You know well that fearful, cautious voice that keeps you from playing a bigger game. Now you want to make contact with your higher self. So simply sit with a strong intention to do so and begin a dialogue by writing down questions and asking your higher self to answer. 

With the same respect you&#039;d give that loving Uncle ask a series of questions and follow-up questions. Sometimes I&#039;ll write my questions in pencil and my higher self&#039;s answers in ink. The more your practice this, the more open the lines of communication become. Approach these sessions confidently.  The purpose of your higher self is to help you see your optimum path. use him or her and honor him or her with your action.

Matt - Yes, I agree we need to know that we may not see all of the information before we act. But at the same time we need to remain very aware and observant after we act.  More info is available than one might initially think.

Jason - Questions are the essence of life. That&#039;s the route we take to higher self wisdom, asking the pointed question.

Juliet - yes but we only second guess when we pause to think about it and when we&#039;ve done that, I don&#039;t think we&#039;ve truly committed in the first place. Make a decsion you won&#039;t turn your back on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All &#8211; A reader asked how exactly do we tap this inner wisdom.  You don&#8217;t have to do anything special other than open the lines of communication through invitation. You&#8217;re already frequently in communication with your little self. You know well that fearful, cautious voice that keeps you from playing a bigger game. Now you want to make contact with your higher self. So simply sit with a strong intention to do so and begin a dialogue by writing down questions and asking your higher self to answer. </p>
<p>With the same respect you&#8217;d give that loving Uncle ask a series of questions and follow-up questions. Sometimes I&#8217;ll write my questions in pencil and my higher self&#8217;s answers in ink. The more your practice this, the more open the lines of communication become. Approach these sessions confidently.  The purpose of your higher self is to help you see your optimum path. use him or her and honor him or her with your action.</p>
<p>Matt &#8211; Yes, I agree we need to know that we may not see all of the information before we act. But at the same time we need to remain very aware and observant after we act.  More info is available than one might initially think.</p>
<p>Jason &#8211; Questions are the essence of life. That&#8217;s the route we take to higher self wisdom, asking the pointed question.</p>
<p>Juliet &#8211; yes but we only second guess when we pause to think about it and when we&#8217;ve done that, I don&#8217;t think we&#8217;ve truly committed in the first place. Make a decsion you won&#8217;t turn your back on.</p>
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		<title>By: LifeMadeGreat &#124; Juliet</title>
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		<dc:creator>LifeMadeGreat &#124; Juliet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 06:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tom

&quot;It’s seldom good when we hesitate to act.&quot;
This really struck me - well a number of aspects of your post did.

It applies to all areas of life.
Intuition is so hampered by life as we tend to live and experience it.

Overcoming those beliefs that hold us in the lower self can be so difficult. It is so easy to second-guess all of the higher-self cues.

Juliet

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;LifeMadeGreat &#124; Juliets last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LifemadegreatBlog/~3/OoRtm3P4oQc/fear-of-no-change&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Fear Of No Change&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tom</p>
<p>&#8220;It’s seldom good when we hesitate to act.&#8221;<br />
This really struck me &#8211; well a number of aspects of your post did.</p>
<p>It applies to all areas of life.<br />
Intuition is so hampered by life as we tend to live and experience it.</p>
<p>Overcoming those beliefs that hold us in the lower self can be so difficult. It is so easy to second-guess all of the higher-self cues.</p>
<p>Juliet</p>
<p><abbr><em>LifeMadeGreat | Juliets last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LifemadegreatBlog/~3/OoRtm3P4oQc/fear-of-no-change" rel="nofollow">Fear Of No Change</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Jason Cohen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason Cohen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree that you know best yourself.  But sometimes you&#039;re too close to your own hang-ups and neuroses to see.

I find the best advice comes in the form of good questions rather than pat answers.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jason Cohens last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/smartbear/~3/8mfbXZ08InE/double-your-productivity-without-more-work-or-stress.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Double your productivity without more work or stress&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree that you know best yourself.  But sometimes you&#8217;re too close to your own hang-ups and neuroses to see.</p>
<p>I find the best advice comes in the form of good questions rather than pat answers.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Jason Cohens last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/smartbear/~3/8mfbXZ08InE/double-your-productivity-without-more-work-or-stress.html" rel="nofollow">Double your productivity without more work or stress</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Matt Thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt Thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your advice on going big. I am a firm believer that the only true barrier to our own success is not thinking big enough. 

That said, confusion and uncertainty are common human emotions, so when making career-level decisions, it isn&#039;t unnatural to feel a bit confused. 

I think what is important is being able to recognize confusion and uncertainty when it comes, embrace it, then understand that you can never obtain 100% of the information available to make a decision. We often have to make decisions that are information-lacking. It is important that we become comfortable with this, and allow ourselves to be comfortable with uncertainty, rather than search for information to rid ourselves of uncertainty.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Matt Thomass last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Entre-propel/~3/5BoS9CD493U/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;See My Guest Post at Daily Entrepreneur Tip&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your advice on going big. I am a firm believer that the only true barrier to our own success is not thinking big enough. </p>
<p>That said, confusion and uncertainty are common human emotions, so when making career-level decisions, it isn&#8217;t unnatural to feel a bit confused. </p>
<p>I think what is important is being able to recognize confusion and uncertainty when it comes, embrace it, then understand that you can never obtain 100% of the information available to make a decision. We often have to make decisions that are information-lacking. It is important that we become comfortable with this, and allow ourselves to be comfortable with uncertainty, rather than search for information to rid ourselves of uncertainty.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Matt Thomass last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Entre-propel/~3/5BoS9CD493U/" rel="nofollow">See My Guest Post at Daily Entrepreneur Tip</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 20:27:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cath - Your increased awareness will lead to a practice of self-honor that will set you free.

Jay - I&#039;m grateful, but if you didn&#039;t have it within you, these posts could not inspire you. I&#039;ll take credit for the nudge but the lift is all yours. :)

Grog - Amen! No one is coming to save your ass!

Laurie - Anyone who says that entrepreneurship is hard needs to read a collection of your comments here. You have found yourself and you are thriving!

Giovanna - I&#039;ll bet you bring your &quot;A&quot; game daily.

Barbara - Glad this resonated with you. &quot;If you want more than you have, you’ve been giving less than you can.” In this case the more I&#039;m speaking of is more of your authentic self. Authentic expression is the key to prosperity.

Evan - Thanks buddy. You&#039;re right about fear - it&#039;s a very wise teacher.

Heather - Do I detect that you&#039;re playing a bigger game yourself, these days?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cath &#8211; Your increased awareness will lead to a practice of self-honor that will set you free.</p>
<p>Jay &#8211; I&#8217;m grateful, but if you didn&#8217;t have it within you, these posts could not inspire you. I&#8217;ll take credit for the nudge but the lift is all yours. <img src='http://www.delightfulwork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Grog &#8211; Amen! No one is coming to save your ass!</p>
<p>Laurie &#8211; Anyone who says that entrepreneurship is hard needs to read a collection of your comments here. You have found yourself and you are thriving!</p>
<p>Giovanna &#8211; I&#8217;ll bet you bring your &#8220;A&#8221; game daily.</p>
<p>Barbara &#8211; Glad this resonated with you. &#8220;If you want more than you have, you’ve been giving less than you can.” In this case the more I&#8217;m speaking of is more of your authentic self. Authentic expression is the key to prosperity.</p>
<p>Evan &#8211; Thanks buddy. You&#8217;re right about fear &#8211; it&#8217;s a very wise teacher.</p>
<p>Heather &#8211; Do I detect that you&#8217;re playing a bigger game yourself, these days?</p>
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