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	<description>Tom Volkar ~ Coaching the leap and the landing to small business success.</description>
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		<title>By: master mind</title>
		<link>http://www.delightfulwork.com/life-coaching-tools/how-to-honor-your-commitments/comment-page-1/#comment-43281</link>
		<dc:creator>master mind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 May 2011 06:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Honor only determines the healing rate of your troops.

If your honor is higher then the person your attacking your percentage of the amount of troops you can heal will drop.
Though if their honor is higher then your rate will increase to heal more troops.

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http://hubpages.com/hub/How-to-get-honor-on-what-you-say</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Honor only determines the healing rate of your troops.</p>
<p>If your honor is higher then the person your attacking your percentage of the amount of troops you can heal will drop.<br />
Though if their honor is higher then your rate will increase to heal more troops.</p>
<p>for more</p>
<p><a href="http://hubpages.com/hub/How-to-get-honor-on-what-you-say" rel="nofollow">http://hubpages.com/hub/How-to-get-honor-on-what-you-say</a></p>
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		<title>By: How To Play a Bigger Business Game &#124; Delightful Work</title>
		<link>http://www.delightfulwork.com/life-coaching-tools/how-to-honor-your-commitments/comment-page-1/#comment-2338</link>
		<dc:creator>How To Play a Bigger Business Game &#124; Delightful Work</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2009 14:34:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] inspired to a Viking-like commitment by reading Brett&#8217;s blog [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] inspired to a Viking-like commitment by reading Brett&#8217;s blog [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar</title>
		<link>http://www.delightfulwork.com/life-coaching-tools/how-to-honor-your-commitments/comment-page-1/#comment-1419</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:52:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Retirement Planning - Welcome to Delightful Work. I&#039;m pleased to meet another commitment keeper.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Retirement Planning &#8211; Welcome to Delightful Work. I&#8217;m pleased to meet another commitment keeper.</p>
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		<title>By: Retirement Planning</title>
		<link>http://www.delightfulwork.com/life-coaching-tools/how-to-honor-your-commitments/comment-page-1/#comment-1416</link>
		<dc:creator>Retirement Planning</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 13:01:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! Whether you promise to yourself or to others, promises are not made to be broken. It&#039;s a commitment bound to make.:-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! Whether you promise to yourself or to others, promises are not made to be broken. It&#8217;s a commitment bound to make.:-)</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar</title>
		<link>http://www.delightfulwork.com/life-coaching-tools/how-to-honor-your-commitments/comment-page-1/#comment-895</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 12:11:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bamboo you&#039;re right man it&#039;s all about how good we feel. Personal competence is key even though it&#039;s all subjective. 

As for your second comment, I wasn&#039;t even thinking of more effort. My brother always told his wife to try harder when she was losing in our family poker games and more ridiculous advise was never given. We review for strategy&#039;s sake like you said. If we really look there is always an adjustment we can make.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bamboo you&#8217;re right man it&#8217;s all about how good we feel. Personal competence is key even though it&#8217;s all subjective. </p>
<p>As for your second comment, I wasn&#8217;t even thinking of more effort. My brother always told his wife to try harder when she was losing in our family poker games and more ridiculous advise was never given. We review for strategy&#8217;s sake like you said. If we really look there is always an adjustment we can make.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar</title>
		<link>http://www.delightfulwork.com/life-coaching-tools/how-to-honor-your-commitments/comment-page-1/#comment-894</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 12:08:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ariel those are good questions. I say forget about sticking to a commitment just because you&#039;ve made one. Things do change ans when they do we need to face up to the new circumstances. When I said, “Sometimes adjustments need to be made along with making totally new commitments. That’s not weaseling out; that’s deciding anew with fresh information.” I was mainly thinking about self-pledges.

However when it involves another then we need to bring them in on the conversation to re-commit or not. Most folks appreciate the honesty and even legal contracts can be adjusted if both parties see the merit in it.

You&#039;re right of course about committing in the future. This reminds me of Neale Donald Walsch, author of Conversations with God, and his marriage vows. He and his wife re-commit to them every morning if they still feel the same way. That way they bring present moment awareness to their marriage. That&#039;s ideal. If you tell me the commitment and the circumstance I&#039;d be better able to advise you. For me the commitment brings a greater level of sacredness to the whole pledging process.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ariel those are good questions. I say forget about sticking to a commitment just because you&#8217;ve made one. Things do change ans when they do we need to face up to the new circumstances. When I said, “Sometimes adjustments need to be made along with making totally new commitments. That’s not weaseling out; that’s deciding anew with fresh information.” I was mainly thinking about self-pledges.</p>
<p>However when it involves another then we need to bring them in on the conversation to re-commit or not. Most folks appreciate the honesty and even legal contracts can be adjusted if both parties see the merit in it.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re right of course about committing in the future. This reminds me of Neale Donald Walsch, author of Conversations with God, and his marriage vows. He and his wife re-commit to them every morning if they still feel the same way. That way they bring present moment awareness to their marriage. That&#8217;s ideal. If you tell me the commitment and the circumstance I&#8217;d be better able to advise you. For me the commitment brings a greater level of sacredness to the whole pledging process.</p>
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		<title>By: Info Explosion</title>
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		<dc:creator>Info Explosion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 05:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] too much, I guess, it&#8217;s important to choose your commitments wisely. And make sure that you place just as much importance on promises you make yourself, as those made to others. Do you exhaust yourself by taking on too much sometimes. How do you deal with [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] too much, I guess, it&#8217;s important to choose your commitments wisely. And make sure that you place just as much importance on promises you make yourself, as those made to others. Do you exhaust yourself by taking on too much sometimes. How do you deal with [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 16:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;If I’ve committed to a similar objective previously and failed, what were all the contributing factors to that failure? How might I respond differently this time?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Also... Is it oversimplistic to say that this time I will simply exert more effort?

Though, I would say, it&#039;s always prudent to combine strategy with effort as much as possible.

Bamboo Forests last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://punintended.com/blog/how-to-make-a-better-future-for-yourself/&quot;&gt;How to Make a Better Future for Yourself&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>If I’ve committed to a similar objective previously and failed, what were all the contributing factors to that failure? How might I respond differently this time?</p></blockquote>
<p>Also&#8230; Is it oversimplistic to say that this time I will simply exert more effort?</p>
<p>Though, I would say, it&#8217;s always prudent to combine strategy with effort as much as possible.</p>
<p>Bamboo Forests last blog post..<a href="http://punintended.com/blog/how-to-make-a-better-future-for-yourself/">How to Make a Better Future for Yourself</a></p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 16:55:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good information. Keeping personal commitments is difficult. The irony is, though - by succeeding with them we are always happier than if we hadn&#039;t.

Yet, it seems, at least momentarily that maybe we would be happier if we would be lazy or stay in our comfort zone or whatever.

But, alas, we never are.

So, in a sense, staying with your commitment is also a commitment to well being and happiness because we are always happiest when we are in control. When we conquer ourselves.

Bamboo Forests last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://punintended.com/blog/how-to-make-a-better-future-for-yourself/&quot;&gt;How to Make a Better Future for Yourself&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good information. Keeping personal commitments is difficult. The irony is, though &#8211; by succeeding with them we are always happier than if we hadn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Yet, it seems, at least momentarily that maybe we would be happier if we would be lazy or stay in our comfort zone or whatever.</p>
<p>But, alas, we never are.</p>
<p>So, in a sense, staying with your commitment is also a commitment to well being and happiness because we are always happiest when we are in control. When we conquer ourselves.</p>
<p>Bamboo Forests last blog post..<a href="http://punintended.com/blog/how-to-make-a-better-future-for-yourself/">How to Make a Better Future for Yourself</a></p>
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		<title>By: Ariel - We Are All One</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ariel - We Are All One</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 08:05:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article, Tom. I&#039;m very glad I found it. :)

One thing I&#039;m still struggling with is the decision to either stubbornly stick with previous commitments or to go with the flow as life changes.

You mentioned in a previous comment:

&quot;Sometimes adjustments need to be made along with making totally new commitments. That’s not weaseling out; that’s deciding anew with fresh information.&quot;

Well sure, but if you committed to doing something, it&#039;s still not following through all the way, regardless of whether or not a new commitment is made. I don&#039;t understand how one can commit to doing something in the future. You could say that you&#039;ll put in the effort, but there&#039;s no way we can guarantee a result. We may be the creator of our own realities, but we can&#039;t control all of life.

All we know is right now. Making a promise about something in the future feels like a lie, deep down. Could you share your insights on this matter? It doesn&#039;t feel crystal clear for me.

Ariel - We Are All Ones last blog post..Adyashanti - The End of Your World</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article, Tom. I&#8217;m very glad I found it. <img src='http://www.delightfulwork.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>One thing I&#8217;m still struggling with is the decision to either stubbornly stick with previous commitments or to go with the flow as life changes.</p>
<p>You mentioned in a previous comment:</p>
<p>&#8220;Sometimes adjustments need to be made along with making totally new commitments. That’s not weaseling out; that’s deciding anew with fresh information.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well sure, but if you committed to doing something, it&#8217;s still not following through all the way, regardless of whether or not a new commitment is made. I don&#8217;t understand how one can commit to doing something in the future. You could say that you&#8217;ll put in the effort, but there&#8217;s no way we can guarantee a result. We may be the creator of our own realities, but we can&#8217;t control all of life.</p>
<p>All we know is right now. Making a promise about something in the future feels like a lie, deep down. Could you share your insights on this matter? It doesn&#8217;t feel crystal clear for me.</p>
<p>Ariel &#8211; We Are All Ones last blog post..Adyashanti &#8211; The End of Your World</p>
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