Lots of us have money issues that need to be examined and cleared. An excellent method is by using emotional freedom technique. Check out this good one here,
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8p0Yy8ecmI.

You could also hire a good coach to support you while you take so much action you don’t have time to worry about what you charge. I know a good one.

How do I overcome this feeling?

Saif welcome to Delightful Work. I’ll check out your blog soon. We create everythingright? Including our intentions of who we want to meet. Looking forward to getting to know you better.

Mark thanks for the clarification. Personal responsibility can seem repulsive to many who are still looking in form the other side of that fencce.

If the lessons of life reflect that premise, then results can sometimes seem “repulsive” to those still in the school of humanity.
And playing truant doesn’t count

regards

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Wow! Your blog is overflowing with love and joy! I love it!

I just found your blog through one of the comments from fellow country-woman, Evelyn Lim’s blog!

I truly believe the Law of Attraction put us together because we have similar takes on a lot of things.

Including this post when you talked about who you want to serve and ask for the money. (I have different steps after that)

I’d love to connect with you on a deeper level Tom! =)

Sincerely,

SaiF
Founder of the Inspired
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If we don’t have faith then we need to go back and work a little harder until the faith arrives.

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Mark, I find that my intake process generally weeds out those who are not a good fit for my style of coaching. I stress accountability quite a bit so the timid do not usually hire me. But the bold are eager to begin. You’ve got to cast a narrower net. I cast a wide one for years and struggled because of it. Read Suzanne’s comment above. She really nailed the answer to the first question and so now her potential clients can recognize themselves even before they contact her.

Tell me what about the Law of Attraction repulses you?

Barbara staying in the present moment seems like such a simple process but implementing it can be a challenge for folks who have the habit of worrying. I agree it could be the greatest of all life’s lessons.

Suzanne you are such a willing student and a delightful coaching client. I like your addition for number four. Being all of who you are is the only way that others can experience you and see if they want to play with you or in this case hire you. You have nailed the description of who you like to serve very well. Your abundance will continue, glory be!

To all, I use Suzanne’s technical expertise in building my blog and her services are first rate.

I am a brand new coaching client of Tom’s who definitely needed to get the money flowing NOW. I have not one, but two businesses, and while I am passionate about what is possible for me in both, I was not feeling that passion on an everyday basis, and no surprise – the money was not following.

Enter Tom the last week of May.

Step 1: Identify who I want to serve the most. Easier said than done! But SO worth the effort!

For my coaching practice, that is: middle age women who feel trapped, who don’t feel like they can be themselves without disappointing someone or pissing someone off. They’ve had it with living by other people’s rules and want more out of life, but aren’t sure what “it” is, or how to get it.

For my web design business, that is: self-employed people who are smart,successful and passionate about what they do and want to create a web presence that conveys their passion and calls the name of those they wish to serve. They either don’t have the technical know-how or the time to create it themselves, but they want it now. They want to be able to easily manage it themselves, once it’s built, yet know that they’re not in it alone and any technical expertise they require is just a phone call or email away.

Believe it or not, it felt like labor and delivery coming up with those two statements! What’s crazy is that I thought I knew who my ideal clients were until I had to actually write it down. No wonder I was struggling month to month! I couldn’t articulate who I wanted to serve, and if I didn’t know who that was, do you think anyone out there in the world knew? No!

Step 2: Ask for the money.

Now this is something that previously filled me with fear – and no wonder! Previously, I had no clear answer to “what do you do?” that people could instantly understand, so no wonder I was reluctant to stick my neck out and ASK for the money. In fact, I was more than reluctant – I didn’t do it.

But you know what? With a clear answer? I’ve been asking everyone I know. Literally. I make what most would call ‘cold calls’ every week, and I’ve gained new clients as a result. And for the calls that don’t result in a new client – a seed has been planted. Now people know what I do and for whom, and when they run into someone who fits my profile, they’re more likely to remember me and the fact that I am looking for exactly that person! I’ve gained 2 new web clients in the last two weeks in this way – someone I spoke to knew someone I had described and connected the two of us – TWICE!

The best part is the fear is gone. I know who I am, what I have to offer, and who I am looking to serve. Nothing to fear in that!

Step 3: Work in the now.

What Tom says is true, and I have always known that something will turn up and things will always work out. I’ve been operating on that principle for the last 6 years, all based on my unwavering intention to be self-employed. But I was also stressing out every day, worrying about how I was going to create the income I needed to survive. I calmed myself by looking backward and remembering that things have always worked out, but I spent little time in the ‘now’, enjoying what I was doing.

By the 15th of this month, I had already brought in what I ‘normally’ make in a month, and I’m on track to double, or holy cow, triple my income this month! When I realized that last week, my knee jerk reaction was, “That’s great – but what about July? How can I replicate this again in July?” But then I caught myself. Immediately, I thought, “Fooey on July! July will be great! Let me concentrate on enjoying this moment doing the work that I love, and before I know it, it will be July and I will still be enjoying this moment and doing the work that I love.”

I do have a Step 4: Give yourself permission.

Has Tom taught me anything ‘new’ this month? No. I’ve known these steps for a long time. What Tom has taught me is that I can know all this, and still live a less-than life. I have to give myself permission to 1) be my real, bad-ass self in this world and 2) create the life I really want by TAKING ACTION. Without my own permission – permission to be real, permission to risk, permission to fail, permission to rise again, permission to thrive – I stay stuck.

Well, sorry, I’m done with stuck. Done.

If you’re done with stuck, too – contact Tom. Get the money flowing NOW.

Suzanne Bird-Harris
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I love #3. Living in the now is so important. We can’t change the future, but we can change the present. Too often time is wasted worrying about tomorrow or next week or ten years from now. For one, we may not even be living, and secondly, by spending so much time worrying about what MIGHT happen, we miss out on life’s simple pleasures.

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Re: “coaching synergy”, what % of potential clients do you find aren’t a best fit for you (i.e. that you politely turn down or refer elsewhere?)

I ask this because from a newly minted coach’s perspective, it can sometimes seem like they have to be “all things to all people” in order to catch a few client fish in their nets! lol
And, not surprisingly, few will take that bait!

There are lessons in attraction that many of us are, for diverse reasons, repulsed by!

regards
mark mcclure
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